Melissa, when someone writes to me on this website, I get an e-mail notification of same. It doesn't say what is in the message, just that I recieved a message. I got three of these e-mails from you today about messages you left for me, but when I logon to the website, there is no message from Melissa, and you are still not listed in the members list.
The only solution I can think of is for you to send me a separate e-mail containing your message, and that way I'll be sure to get it. My e-mail address is: email@example.com